In Eleme town, Rivers State, as part of the traditional marriage rites, grooms are required to demonstrate their strength and devotion by carrying their new brides on their heads for a considerable distance.
This extraordinary custom takes place after the payment of the bride price, where the groom, surrounded by cheering friends and family, lifts his bride onto his head and embarks on a ceremonial journey through the town.
The bride, adorned in traditional attire, sits regally on her groom’s head, waving to onlookers as they make their way through the crowded streets. The groom, focused on his task, carefully navigates the route, undeterred by the weight or size of his precious cargo.
This ancient tradition is a testament to the rich cultural heritage of the Eleme people and serves as a symbol of the groom’s commitment to his bride and their future together. As Nigeria continues to evolve and modernize, customs like this one remind us of the importance of preserving our cultural identity and traditions.
